Ughhh I have been trying to avoid this for many years now but as an artist i often find myself compelled to write something and today is one of those days. I just finished reading an article in New York Magazine by a woman who was trying to say that stress is not the reason we get sick. Her reasoning is that if that were the case, then that would mean it was women's fault. Here goes....................................................................................................................................................................... It kinda is, we ruined it for ourselves with this whole we can do anything attack that we surged years ago. Now we're fucked. We're grumpy and sad and lonely and stuck. and the misogyny is sometimes worse form  women then men. It is true, women have it harder, believe me, I do stand up, i know. But i refuse to be a victim and I refuse to be pigeon holed. I also read and article about tiger woods. when he was growing up the kids in the neighborhood tied him to a tree and spray painted him with the word nigger. He also had a stutter and was incredible shy so he took public speaking course. I watched the Williams sisters at Wimbledon this weekend and both of them won two black girls from the hood in fancy London tournament kicking ass and taking names. And the girl who just broke the world record in swimming competing for the Olympics last night, 5 years ago had a melt down at the Olympics now she's on top of the world. It made me think about Billy Jean king and how she said when a tennis player has a weakness it only gets stronger if you go right at it. It doesn't get stronger if you go around it. If being a woman is a weakness it's not going to change is we go around it we need to go right at it.