We all have it. I personally never really wanted to accept it because that would mean that once i saw that I could really do whatever I wanted I would be responsible. But that sounds really heavy. Also like I have some sort of power. That's a trick I tell myself so I don't have to feel my own powerlessness. I have figured out a way to kinda sit somewhere in the middle. I am responsible to do whatever is humanly possible to fix my insides. I have come to believe that I am made of something so beautiful and spiritual. It is my responsibly to nurture that person and maybe help people feel a little better every day. And if they are not ready to feel better it’s my responsibility to leave them alone :)