So, few Â I have a guy friends who ask Â girls out by sending texts, and they girls usually respond with a simple, Â "K". Then nothing ever happens. I can't tell where the breakdown in communication is, but I'm thinking the whole textingÂ thing is the major culprit.
It seems like an easier way to communicate without having to have a lot of feelings, but in reality, you have to have more feelings, becauseÂ things getÂ misinterpreted.
I have found that being direct, authentic, straight forward and honest has been the most exhausting Â for me Â at first. But in reality, it's just tiring for the short time right after you do it , but it's like a muscle, the more you do it, the stronger it gets.
But, the other way is actually more exhausting, becuase it's like a dull tired, and you never really get anywhere if Â you are not direct.
You stay frustrated and wonder why you don't get what you want.
Sometimes I wonder,at least for myself, if I was more comfortable with being in the yearning, always wishing, instead of having.
Which brings me around to my friend, when the girl says" k" is he supposed to follow up?
I'm guessing yes. It takes a lot toÂ putÂ yourselfÂ out there, but the results areÂ usuallyÂ worth it.
I have found that showing up for myself can be exhausting sometimes, but it's the only way that I get what I want.
Ask and you shallÂ receive.